Some of it does depend on the child. My oldest daughter got her Bitty on her 2nd birthday and plays nicely with her (the only part of a Bitty that can easily be damaged is the painted on hair-it scratches easily). DD#2 just got her Bitty for 2nd Bday and couldn't care a wit yet. She may enjoy her more later on, and Bitty may see some rough lovin, but that's what a Bitty is for: Play.